The Depth Of "YOU"

THE DEPTH OF “YOU”

 

Whenever I used to look myself I always saw a damsel: fully grown up, sophisticated, well matured and developed. That was I before I had went to the depth of “YOU” I never thought of me being unconventional or differently commanded. Until I choose to be going to the depth of what actually am I?

The single 3 (three) letter word has the whole cosmoses in itself. Its meaning is not definite but can be learnt in every new way you want. Every next person has a new translation and interpretation for himself.

THEY ARE NOT WRONG BUT ARE DIFFERENT

That disparity only makes them separate from others. The distinction is nothing but the direction of one’s being proficient.

Being unique is not the problem, only if practicable.

And accordingly this uniqueness also varies with the different ages of life. Every step of life changes one’s personality that is the transformation of “YOU” which is only needed to be understood at every juncture. The passage of time shapes one’s psyche.

So, rationally we can come close to the meaning of “YOU” denoting:

ü Y- YEARS

ü O- OF

ü U- UNIQUENESS

Psychologically has also proven that different personality stages have different personality traits.

Some of the major personality traits are: agreeableness, conscientiousness, extra-version, and neurotic ism (one who has rapid mood swings) people of these personalities experience feelings such as anxiety, worry, fear, anger, depressed mood, jealousy, guilt, and loneliness. 

Having the knowledge of these changing traits of self personality and regulating them timely according to the insistence is about getting the idea of “YOU”. (Oneself)

Everyone has his own uniqueness; no one is untrue or fluffed to accomplish his goals. It’s just the matter of giving someone chance to grow and making his impressions.

The inscriptions will narrate the crafts. And the wisdom will define the endeavor. Let be everyone to fly... Let everyone be the pilot of their lives... Let us stop being the stumbling block of others and also of our own lives. Let us touch the skyline and encourage others also.

  

People have their own approaches to explore their wings and abilities. Here are some of my outlines which I opt in my life to seek me the way I am. You can also mark them to your list of work if you catch it helpful.

·      I never miss any hopeful chance to spend some unattended time especially the “night time.” Staying personally is the all time favorite gift you can give to yourself. It will give you peace and a separate space to discuss your problems with your own as there is no one upper to guide you better than yourself.

       Giving yourself a couple of self hours and getting lost into your attachments and affections is so captivating that you will start loving your own company more than anyone other.

·      I indulge myself to the things I like or I love the most, as like I am a dessert lover especially the chocolate ones. So I pamper myself by purchasing some good stuff cookies, chocolates, flavored candies, pastries and cakes for my own, exclusively when I am sad or feeling boredom, it not even changes my mood but also makes me feel boundless.

      The fact is receiving the things which you love actually gives you the enormous comfort and makes you feel blissful. So I try as much as I can to get surrounded by the things which give me pleasure and feel gratified.

·      I love making contacts with new people, connecting to them, relating the life experiences, reaching out to a new level gives me another level of energy. They are my strength; somehow getting indulged with them rejuvenates my power and lines up a new enthusiasm.

        When you greet new people in your life or interact with the crowd you get to know the real world, the fortunes and misfortunes of life, experiences of every pathway, closure and disclosure, every other thing which is required for you, these things will be your stairs to climb up higher and higher.

·      Music has the best healing power in this world. Music can be whatever of your choice which gives you peace. Good music can make your any lowest day to your best day. As I am not a much lover of the rock bass music, I am fond of the soft soulful music and sometimes trance and instrumental for relaxation. Here are some of my choices of songs which I listen to make myself relaxed from any exhaustion.

    

ü Kabira by Rekha Bhardwaj from the movie  YE JAWANI HAI DEEWANI

ü Afreen Afreen by Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and Momina Mustehsan from COKE STUDIO

ü Pahadi (The sound of nature) by Paras Nath from the album ETERNAL WINDS

ü Sammi Meri Waar by Umair Jaswal and Quratulain Balouch from COKE STUDIO

ü Tera Woh Pyaar by Momina Mustehsan and Asim Azhar from COKE STUDIO

These tracks have the power of regeneration of soul. I am really in love of these sounds. I will recommend to my every reader to must try it once.

·      Compassing you around the good company. I surround myself with the person of different ages who guides me, who makes me feel friendly as well and also the person who makes me feel ripened.

       A very famous talk from TEDx TALKS by Tai Lopez on the Law of 33%; he said that we must divide our lives to the different levels. 33% level we should live with the people below our age who will make you feel comfortable and more matured and also you can help them by mentoring their lives too, the other 33% should be spend with the persons of your ages which will be more friendlier and fun loving and the last 33% should be spend with the people 10 or 20 times older than you who have the experience of real struggling life and their situation handling techniques will guide you and help you as a mentor. Their experiences will be your lessons to grow and to proceed in your lives.

   I spend time with the people with whom I can grow, learn, have fun and also help them in their dilemma.

So these above were the few things which I do to know myself and to get indulged in my depth to retrospect my thought process.

Accordingly, we must know ourselves to the depth of our soul so that we can’t be ditched by even ourselves.

Please let me know if you can connect any of the above things to yourself and if also can exercise it to your lives. Let us help each other to know more.