The Unspoken "YOU"

 Dear Destiny, Sometimes I feel that you are mine, like really mine. As the way I want you to be, the way I see you in my dreams, the way I wish you should be like. And unquestionably I own it.  I dream, I desire, I work, I create and I do push you away sometimes but at last I credit you to be mine. But you don't be here always right? You change your mood, You bluff me showing your worst sides like a nightmare and then at some places of my brain I  choose to believe you. I don't know why but I do believe you and I guess that's my mistake which I do very often like a kid. You actually are a big distraction on your own.  You show your gigantic moves up and down, to and fro and scares everyone and makes at-times make people timid of choosing you showing your colossal sides. I feel sometimes that everything happens happens for a reason but you create your own world of uncertainties,. dilemma, progressions,. regressions but I do support you because yes I believe that you ...

Paradoxical bend: Sometimes, men are falsely leveled sexual assault or dowry allegations for blackmail or revenge, say lawyers. Rightly did Swami Vivekananda say “Just as a bird cannot fly with a one wing only, a Nation cannot march forward if the women are left behind.” For the last many years there has been increasing laws for women who protect them and provide them justice. But contrarily there are cases found in which the table turns and these protection laws weighed heavy on both the parties. Yes, the laws for women are made for protection and the women are being protected by these laws but the question arises are these women honestly using these protection laws? Unfortunately the answer is no, there are many cases which are being found in which men are falsely being alleged for the crimes which have not been carried by them. They are being treated as culprits because women make them seen so. There are many such cases in which the latter turn out to be innocent after...

How to accept “EVERYTHING”? It is always being said that we should accept ourselves the way we are. But is that so easy to welcome everything in our lives as it is being told to us? The underlying question is just how? How can anyone accept every switch of one’s life? The answer of every how is “YOUR THOUGHT” i.e.; your attention to the things around you. How you deal? How you react? And specifically how you perceive?  There can be many ways of accepting yourself completely, the way you are, the way you see yourself for everyone, the way how you  look, howyou dress up, how you talk, how youwalk, how you carry yourself etc. Great strides always show you the ways to adapt yourself merrily. Here are some ways to get into it! ü Attending ears - pick up everything you are being told of. Hear every bordering stuff you’re surrounded with but listen to what you feel right. You will be told many things on your ladder steps, some will disturb you, some will mo...

THE DEPTH OF “YOU”   Whenever I used to look myself I always saw a damsel: fully grown up, sophisticated, well matured and developed. That was I before I had went to the depth of “YOU” I never thought of me being unconventional or differently commanded. Until I choose to be going to the depth of what actually am I? The single 3 (three) letter word has the whole cosmoses in itself. Its meaning is not definite but can be learnt in every new way you want. Every next person has a new translation and interpretation for himself. THEY ARE NOT WRONG BUT ARE DIFFERENT That disparity only makes them separate from others . The distinction is nothing but the direction of one’s being proficient. Being unique is not the problem, only if practicable. And accordingly this uniqueness also varies with the different ages of life. Every step of life changes one’s personality that is the transformation of “YOU” which is only needed to ...